GIRLS!

I am no feminist. But just to supplement to my posts on girl power, here is something I came across a while back.Sweet & simple.

♥ Girl... ♥

From the day one..

she becomes apple of her father’s eyes…

Her silent tears do wonders..

and Dad agrees to do on what he said a big 'No' earlier..! 

She can walk in style all day long without lookng tired..

She burns her hand....while cooking for u...but never complains...

She can cry all night, but the next morning when her eyes are red..

its just because mascara hit her eyes.. 

She Likes to be called "Angel" or "Princess" or "Baby"… 

She will drop a lot of hints to tell you that she Loves you

But she won’t come say it directly..

When a guy says something really sentimental,

She will remember it forever..

When a girl cooks for you.. You know..?

You mean a lot to her..

She feels Honoured.. when You ask her Advice..

She feels Shy.. when you look at her Silently..

She feels Protective when she is dependent on you.. 

She is expected to seal her Words …

to crush her emotions… to stop her tears..

and to have a big smile on her face.. no matter how hard she is crying inside..

She is one.. who is treated as a Princess in her Parent's House,

when she gets Married.. She leaves every thing behind..

her Parents, their Love.. her Room..

she adopts your family Values.. even your family name..

She calls ur mother "Mum"... and ur father "Dad"

The fact that I am alive today in spite of the shambles, is the proof that I have gotten stronger  

Empowerment

Recently a close friend had sent me a text which went like this, “I now understand what women empowerment is all about. A person like you (brought up abroad, educated, with experiences outside her own state) cannot do something that she likes because of society. I am lucky to be a man! ”

His frankness is commendable but I could not help wondering if I was really unlucky. Being a woman isn’t easy (at least from where I come from) in any way. Every day is a battle for some respect and respect isn’t something you can force out of anybody. You get judged for everything you do/say/wear and you are charged guilty for life simply because you live life the way you want it. One thing I truly appreciate is their wild creative imagination (thanks to the soap operas) to tailor gossips & rumors with the snap of their fingers and continue on shamelessly in spinning their webs to their utmost delight. And sadly here, it’s the women themselves who make your life a living hell unlike the male counterparts.

People are a total scam if they can’t get their attitudes right.